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Genesis: #peydamewed

November 21, 2014

Over the summer, Alex and I decided that we are going to get married in 2016. It happened rather organically. Basking in the glow of our French vacation in April we were excited for our next trip. And to take that much time off again would require planning.

When thinking about our next trip we realized that in 2016 we will have been together for more than four years. And it was time to make it official. Italy would have to wait, or become our Honeymoon.

In the beginning of our wedding conversations, Alex would have preferred that we get married next year in 2015. But the event planner in me was panicked at that prospect. We don’t have a venue. Or a guest list. Or even a plan. Not to mention the other million other details we need to figure out. And probably the most important detail not completed is the fact that we are not even engaged.

So we agreed, summer 2016.

Months later, we are working on the guest list (it is at 200). We have started to scour yelp reviews on potential venues. And we have agreed on our current top priorities (mine: food and wine; hers: the ceremony and venue). We both don’t give a shit about the cake (it should be good), or flowers (let’s have some, but doesn’t need to break the bank), or invitations (we are going to make them at home).

Much like new parents, we are receiving a lot of unsolicited advice from our friends and family. Everyone has an opinion. And I/we have to remind them that this is not 1970s/80s anymore. The wedding business has changed. And while my parents were married in the sleepy town of Cheney (today population over 10,000), we are getting married in the largest city in the Pacific Northwest. For better or worse, there is more than one caterer, one venue, one florist, etc, etc, etc. This will be unlike anything my parents did when they were married. They are slowly realizing that.

So the last couple of years, I haven’t written much in this blog. Stories about our daily life together is very boring. Take today for example: During breakfast, Alex drops bagel crumbs on Miles. Nick teases her and tells her she doesn’t love the cat. Alex rolls her eyes.

Well at the very least not as exciting as some of my past dating stories like the one about the date told through text messages, or the girl I asked out with my business card, or the girl who told me she was married to my former co-worker.

But our upcoming engagement and wedding provides me an opportunity to write more about our relationship and the craziness of a wedding. And hopefully it will be interesting. And hopefully, you will find it funny.

Next time on #peydamewed: Nick and Alex go ring shopping; offered espresso; Alex realizes that she wants bling.